How I Got Here
I checked every box. College athlete. Fast-climbing Goldman Sachs VP in New York. Left to start my own company like all the "cool and smart" people were doing. High status. High symbols of success.
On paper, I was winning.
Privately, I was struggling. Depression. Addiction. Obesity. Paralyzed. Choosing over and over to be the biggest block in my own path, to my own aliveness.
A part of me always felt like an outsider, like I didn't fit in. Even though I was doing all the "right" things, everything felt wrong.
Then everything came crumbling down.
My business went bankrupt.
I went bankrupt.
And from the rubble, I finally realized…. it felt all wrong because it was wrong. I was living the life someone else drew up for me, not my own. I had lost my way. Lost myself on that way.
At the bottom, I decided to stay there. Not in misery or wallowing—but to finally choose to understand. To sit in the mud and sift through the pieces of who I really am.
I asked myself, truly, for the first time, “What do I want?”
I didn’t have any answer and that terrified me, but it also gave me clarity on what I must do.
To choose to lean into who I'm meant to be. To choose to live from trust and honesty. To choose the harder path in this life.
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I have always felt, like many of us do, that I am here for something bigger than myself, for some mission in this life. And I believe sharing my journey and supporting others to choose the harder path - to follow what they already know, or give themselves permission to begin to search for their own mission, their own purpose - is mine.
Each day, waking up, intentionally choosing to walk, step by step on a path that only we can walk. That only we can build for ourselves. And on it, yes, we face a constant fight with expectations, voices from the past, unsureness with each step toward the unknown.
But I firmly believe and have experienced, here and now, that it makes me feel more ALIVE.
Choosing the harder path is the path to bringing more life to our life! We can all do this. We all can choose to listen to the voice inside saying “something isn’t right, we are here for more”.
And it’s in this belief that All InSight was born. Through leaving New York and going to (re)find myself, I learned a simple truth: everything I've ever needed - everything we've needed to know about ourselves - has always been in sight. Inside and out. Literally and emotionally.
Now I work with founders and leaders through Three Seas on business strategy and executive coaching. And I work with individuals ready to make larger leaps through All InSight. Both are rooted in the same belief: the answers are already within you. My job is to help you see clearly.